RELATIONSHIPS
Understand What Women Want to Maintain Your Relationship
This is not about attracting women; it is about keeping your relationship.
When in a relationship, your sole responsibility is to keep your woman satisfied and wanting. If not, you’ll most likely lose her to apathy or other men who are more capable than you. And the cycle of entering and ending a relationship repeats if you don’t know what to do.
And so, you chase what you think women generally want, such as status, money, or a chiseled body. However, in reality, women seek stability, love, understanding, assurance, and dependability.
And that’s just the surface of the secret that most men like you don’t know about.
That said, be what women want — a partner who can easily understand her needs and feelings.
Know how to spoil your partner
When women voice out what they want, it doesn’t necessarily mean that’s all there is to it. Often, women want a lot more than is expected.
Spoil your partner. Make her feel pampered.
It doesn’t mean you should treat her to something fancy or buy her expensive gifts. Instead, take a genuine interest in her wants and needs.
As clichés go, it’s the little things that women want.
Focus on understanding yourself
This may sound ironic, given that the whole point of this article is to help you maintain your relationship. However, in becoming what women want, most men believe they have it all figured out when they discover an attractive characteristic of theirs and focus solely on it.
But they’re wrong — so very wrong. Men who are one-trip ponies cannot stay in a relationship for long. Why?
If you keep on doing the same thing day after day, things will get pretty repetitive and boring fairly quickly.
So, adapt to various situations and highlight your other appropriate traits. In some cases, you may need to demonstrate more than one redeeming characteristic.
For example, if she wants you to momentarily set aside your tasks to talk, you can comply to show your love and concern for her. Or you can decline and be both assertive and caring. In this way, not only do you project an eager tone to listen to her, but you also show her that you can be in control.
If you can do this and are the best at it, your woman will not hesitate to stay with you. You’ve shown her what a real man is. And by doing so, she will be aware of the possibility that she will lose you if she takes you for granted.
Quite a turnaround, right?
Be Consistent
Although this may sound appealing, you must put in the effort.
The early phase of becoming a better man isn’t the most challenging part of the change. The consistency of sticking with such a tedious process is what causes men to give up on occasion.
But with great mastery of oneself and their partner comes a long-term relationship — and that’s what women want.
Riches and status might be tempting, but they aren’t enough. Don’t be the kind of man who thinks he can buy his way into his partner’s heart.
After all, the most successful men are those who understand women.
