What It Is Like Dating An Attractive Woman

I may not have any business in writing about what it is like to date and be with a woman who is conventionally attractive in the eyes of many. However, I have read a certain article on the internet and it goes like this,

“The unspoken code among men is that average women are better in all aspects of life because of what we call ‘compensatory factors.’ They (average looking women) are aware that they lack something vital and always strive to compensate for it in all fronts, from cooking, to manners and better still to where it matters most: bedroom. Not so with beautiful women.”

Reading that, I have thought about how it might give out the wrong impression and discourage men from pursuing women whom they think are physically beautiful. Not to toot my own horn but every woman is beautiful in their own way and that shouldn’t discourage a man to pursue her.

As a dating coach, I have experiences with men around the globe who have found real and meaningful relationships with a woman they first thought of as someone who is extremely gorgeous. They initially thought that pursuing a beautiful woman is like taking a shot in the clouds but then they soon realize that they are definitely worth the trouble.

“Having a drop-dead gorgeous woman in your arms is a delightful feeling. It also makes people admire you more for having landed her. More respected, I guess.”

Says Eros, a client of mine who shared his experience after he had successfully met and dated a beautiful woman during one of our Medellin tours.

Matthew also added in his testimonials,

“Life is more fun and exciting when you’re super attracted to your partner. Being with a lady you think is astoundingly stunning does wonders for your self-esteem and outlook. Your body will usually be flooded with happy hormones like endorphins.”

Christopher gave me a laugh during one of his interviews when he said,

“I find my delight in her! You guys should do the same!”

With full disclosure, dating the girl that you find the most attractive is not all rainbows and butterflies or hitting the jackpot kind of feeling. Some of these guys have also shared their sentiments too.

“The truly stunning women always have male friends hoping to sleep with them. They never will, but sometimes they might become a nuisance for both you and her.”

This is what Noel said while he looked lovingly at his now-girlfriend Gloria when our team got them together for a testimony interview.

Joseph also shares his struggles of dating a very beautiful woman who doesn’t believe she is beautiful in herself.

“She’ll never fully grasp the fact that men really, really, really want her. You’ll need to put in the effort of helping her believe that she’s beautiful.”

Roland also gives his opinion after having the time of his life on one of our excursions.

“All the women here are nice, playful, and fun. I used to think that hot women are “mean.” Not my experience at all. They may have the attitude because so much of their time in public is dedicated to fielding uninvited advances from men they aren’t interested in. You just have to show them respect and not act like a total creep around them”

Now, these are just what I have gathered as the pros and cons of dating an attractive woman. I think these men can vouch for me when I say that dating a beautiful woman can be an incredible experience.

To be fair, every man should really see their partner as beautiful. I believe that for the relationship to work, you both must be attracted to each other. Being beautiful can stretch out to many wonderful meanings as well and should not be boxed into the conventional meaning of being physically attractive.

Now, here is a thought to ponder on: people, and not just women, are not only to be seen as someone valuable based on their looks.