TRAVEL DATING

“Would you travel to Colombia to meet a girl?”

Alejandra Rodríguez
2 min readJun 24, 2024
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If you develop a genuine bond with someone and desperately want to meet them in person, then flying over towards them could lead to a special relationship. But you should prioritize your safety and there’s a few factors to consider before booking a flight, particularly if you’ve only ever interacted online.

Here’s a few of them:

  1. Trust — Do you trust this person? Do you know what they’re who they say they are? Are they the girl of your dreams or a 40-year-old man catfishing you for money? These are things you need to know before you fly out to meet someone.
  2. Safety precautions — As many strides as Colombia has made in recent decades, you should still exercise safety precautions. Research where you’re going to be and make sure that someone you trust knows where you’re going to and who you’re meeting.
  3. Legal consideration — You might be getting ahead of yourself, but you should probably start thinking about visas and travel restrictions, not just for you to go, but also for you to bring her back with you.
  4. Financial considerations — Evaluate how much the trip is going to cost, including the flights, hotels, and miscellaneous costs.
  5. Realistic expectation — Be realistic about what you’re going to get. The girl you meet may immediately fall into your arms or the spark you felt online may not translate to real life.

Your decision to travel is your and yours alone. Weigh the pros and cons, consider all the elements, and make an informed decision.

Originally published on Quora

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