How to Win the Heart of a Colombian Woman

Alejandra Rodríguez
5 min readSep 26, 2022

In 2019, 39% of American men were single, compared with 36% of women. And men have several reasons why they chose to remain unpartnered.

For them, it could be any of these reasons — dating is not their top priority, just wanting to stay single, too busy, or bad past experiences.

Fortunately, international dating has changed the perspective of many men. Men and women from all over the world are now forming long-distance relationships. Some have even chosen to travel to a different country to find a partner.

Many of these foreign men found their way to the country of Colombia, and they are taking their time to enjoy and find someone to date in the city of eternal spring, Medellin.

Why are these men heading to Medellin?

Medellin is known for its beautiful scenery and the never-ending spring season, inviting at least 550,000 foreigners to visit the city every year.

Aside from that, the city is also home to Colombian women who have beautiful dark hair, flawless olive skin, and otherworldly curves. They are women who have traits that men are looking for.

Why do they want to date Colombian women?

While beauty is what makes these women stand out, it’s not all that a man wants. These women have personality traits and customs that any man will love, especially traits that are common to women in Medellin.

Let’s talk about them.

1. They are passionate and expressive

Colombian women are generally quote expressive. If you are thinking that they are not good at expressing themselves because English is not their first language, think again.

When they can’t express what they feel, expect to see a lot of gestures. It’s mysterious and odd though, that you can somehow understand what they’re trying to say, well at least some of it.

You’ll also feel their passion when you are talking to them. When you talk about dreams, relationships, family, interests, career, and their city, you can see in their eyes that they love what they are talking about, or how much they are revolted by something.

2. They are generous and kind

Generosity is one of the defining traits of a Colombian. They would go out of their way just to help someone, especially someone that they care about. If you walk along the streets you may sometimes receive fruit from a vendor so that you can have a try.

They oftentimes offer monetary help to someone even if they are not financially stable. If someone is in a difficult situation, they will not fail to give them all the assistance they need.

They are also willing to do favors to someone that they care about, and even to strangers. You can expect to see women and kids offering help to someone they barely know.

3. They are loyal and committed

Colombian women will stay committed and faithful to you even when faced with a lot of challenges. Relationships are sacred to them, and they consider it a huge responsibility to protect them.

They will make sure that their partner also holds the same convictions as them when it comes to loyalty. When they are sure of their relationship, they would stay by your side no matter what.

However, if they find out or even have a hint that you are not faithful to them, expect that they will give you a hard time and they will never forgive you.

4. They are supportive and submissive

You may think that making Colombian women submit to you could be one of the challenges that you will face when dating, especially when you learn how strong-willed and feisty they are.

The reality is quite the opposite. They can be the most supportive and submissive women out there. They may find it difficult to submit at first but when you show them that you are worthy, you will earn their undivided support.

You can expect that they will submit to your decisions as long as it doesn’t go against their values.

5. They are fun-loving and spontaneous.

There are no dull moments when you are with a Colombian woman. They can turn a normal day into a day of sunshine. Expect that you will have a fun and memorable date with them. These women will find ways just to keep a conversation going, and they know a lot of fun things to do just to keep the day lively.

They might even pull you to the dance floor to flaunt their skills in dancing or they’ll make silly dance moves to make you laugh. They just don’t run out of new things to do to make things fun.

If you are thinking about dating them, make sure that you will not spoil your evening dates because you can’t keep up with them.

These traits may have even piqued your interests even further, however, it doesn’t mean you will now have an easy time pursuing them.

Here are some tips so you will not have a difficult time pursuing these Colombian women.

1. Make the first move

Be direct. They expect you to approach them first. These women may be expressive and they will show you how they feel, but don’t expect that they will confess their feelings to you.

This is how they figure out if the man is genuinely interested in them. If they don’t make the first move, they will consider the man unsure of his intentions. Making the first move tells them that you are sincere and serious about going on a date with them.

2. Earn the approval of her family

Colombian women put their families first, and their families are involved in the important decisions they make in life, including dating.

So when a Colombian woman brings you along to important family events and meets her family, it means that she is sure about you and she wants her family to approve of you.

Once you earn the approval of her family, you also better be ready to level up your efforts. They are already expecting a lot of things from you, and they are entrusting her to you.

Also, their approval means that you are already a part of the family. So expect that you’ll be joining all their family gatherings, celebrations, and fun times.

3. Learn a bit of Spanish

You don’t have to be fluent in Spanish. Learning a few phrases that will help you converse with someone will already give you a good chance of dating a Colombian woman.

Knowing a bit of Spanish might even pique their interest, they might even find it sexy if you try to follow their accent when they speak Spanish. Other than that, roaming around Colombia will also require you to talk to the locals, so a few Spanish words will help you navigate around the city.

Pursuing Love in the City of Eternal Spring

If you are one of the foreign men that are considering visiting the country of Colombia to find someone to date, then Medellin is a place you should explore. A romantic city where you can win the heart of a Colombian woman.

Many have found their partners in the city. They have stayed together and built lasting marriages. Indeed, relationships in this city will last for a lifetime.

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