How To Have a Positive Online Dating Experience
Competition in online dating is fierce, especially if you’re a guy. Based on the Global Web Index, 62% of online dating app users are men while the remaining 38% are women. This just means more competition for men and more choices for women.
Just like in-person dating, online dating is all about presenting oneself in a way that makes you look more desirable. What adds to the pleasure of online dating is having complete control over your story and online presence. There are times that you will be tempted to present yourself differently, however, there are certain ways to control the perceptions that others have of you, depending on how you present yourself in an online dating setting.
There are a lot of misconceptions about men using online dating apps for casual fun, but there are still a lot of gentlemen out there hoping to create a genuine physical and mental connection with someone. You could be one of them.
Here are some ways you could strive to have success in online dating without taking away the fun:
1. Choose the right dating platform.
Navigating through online dating can feel like walking through a minefield and you’re not quite sure where to go and what to do. However, what would make your experience easier is to carefully choose the right platform to use.
Online dating can vary from app to website. There are various apps available wherein you can choose a desirable partner with just a flick of a finger. There are also websites where you can hire a professional matchmaker who will set you up with a potential date, complete with background checks on both sides. Either way, make sure you choose a platform that suits your needs and preferences.
2. Invest in good-quality photos.
Your online photo should accurately present who you are, at least, physically. We frequently use filters or tweak our pictures to make ourselves look and feel good, but make sure you are still presenting who you truly are.
You can hire a professional to take photos of you if you have the time and money. If not, experiment with yourself, discover your best angles, and use your best features when taking images.
3. Get creative with your profile description.
In this modern world, women have also evolved. While being physically attractive might give you an edge, it is not enough. Women like to have interesting conversations. They want a man with the same wavelength.
How would they know? By reading your profile bio. So exert some effort on it. Most women filter the men on the app or website by seeing if your profile description matches their own interests or if they find you amusing enough for them to want to get to know more about you. So showcase your funniest joke or include a very witty remark!
4. Exude confidence and chivalry through the screen.
You’ve managed to put up a very interesting introduction and attractive profile photos, but it doesn’t end there! Your confidence and self-esteem should match, especially when conversing with women. But don’t overdo it or you might appear cocky. Being a gentleman doesn’t necessarily mean being timid but being able to take control of a conversation all while giving the lady the attention she deserves.
5. Don’t think too far ahead and just enjoy the experience.
Chances are, you will get rejected and you will also get to reject other people. So don’t get caught up in worries about why you’re not getting any likes or why you haven’t discovered somebody who matches your preferences.
Remember to allow yourself the opportunity to meet people, both good and bad. Who knows what kind of thrill and adventure awaits you if you’d just sit back and enjoy the ride.
Online dating success requires time and does not happen overnight, just like in-person dating. Take the time to build on your profile and communicate with potential dates. Even if it appears to be a lot of effort, if you’re serious about trying online dating, you should consider it as an investment of your time rather than a chore.
