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How to Find the One and Make Her Stay Even If You’re Broke
If you have nothing but coins in your wallet, should you even be dating in the first place?
Being broke shouldn’t stop you from finding the one. Instead, consider this phase the perfect time to test your dating capabilities.
But although you’re eager to pursue a relationship, some women may not be confident enough to be with you, given your situation.
So perhaps you’re wondering how to find the one if your dating field has narrowed down.
Here’s a surefire way.
Filter out your matches
When on a date, just be honest. Not all women will find you a turn-off if you’re broke. And those who stick around are the ones you should pursue.
Remember, if a woman doesn’t love you when you’re at your lowest, she doesn’t deserve you at your best. Those who support and encourage their man through their “broke” phase will be blessed.
Meanwhile, those who won’t even consider you a prospect are missing out simply by passing up on a good man who is, at the moment, not at that place in life yet.
But now that you’ve got a woman willing to be with you, how can you make her stay?
If you have nothing but a few pretty pennies, you should do your best to let your efforts shine.
How to show her your love when on a budget
Dating can get expensive; you can’t help but want to impress your beautiful date through grand gestures. But here’s a little secret: You can have a great time without splurging wads of cash on some fancy restaurant.
1. Bring her to a museum
What’s a better way to say that you’re cultured than by bringing her to one of the local museums?
The museum is the perfect setting to engage in a meaningful conversation with a woman. You get to talk about art and history as you dig up things from the past.😉 Sometimes, the admission tickets are free, so you don’t need to worry about spending a cent.
2. Take her on a stroll on the beach
Sand on your toes, the crashing waves along the seashore, and a beautiful sunset after the day is over — what a romantic scene! If you want her to catch your golden side, this is the date for you.
3. Offer to cook dinner
Buying groceries and preparing a meal is much cheaper than eating out. It’s also an admirable gesture to cook for someone. Bonus: You can flex your cooking skills and show off that you’re husband material.
Moreover, food is not the only thing you can manipulate when offering dinner. You can set the scene and put on some music. Even lighting a few candles can make a significant difference in the ambiance.
When thinking about how to find the one if you’re broke, don’t focus on those who don’t want you. Turn to those who can accept you as you are, broke or not.
Then, consider a cheap but romantic date to convey your feelings and intentions.
Understandably, setting up a couple of cheap dates can be tedious. Sometimes, you’ll even wish you had the cash to show her you’re the man. Alas, it’s not your time.
However, don’t be discouraged. Remember that since you’re already at the bottom, there’s nowhere else to go but up.
