DATING TIPS
Where to Go for First Dates: 4 Great Places to Choose From
There’s an old adage which goes, “First impressions last.” This applies more often than not to dating.
Most women are great at remembering special occasions. The memory of the very first place you brought her to for a date will last in her memories. It might only take 20 seconds for her to form a first impression, but that impression will last possibly for a lifetime.
A lot of men will agree that the moment a woman agrees to dating them is one the best opportunities that they’ll receive in their search for love.
If you’re among these men, then you need to prepare yourself. You probably already know that this is a good moment to respectfully show your feelings towards her.
From conversation topics and questions to ask her, to the way you dress, you need to convey your genuine interest in her. It’s a little like acing a job interview. Do the best that you can so you can both enjoy each other’s company.
The place you choose for a date also requires careful preparation. Atmosphere and environment counts for a lot, right?
When choosing a place to date for the first time, you can pick among these options:
1. Romantic dinner in a restaurant
This is among the most popular choices for first dates. Restaurants are widely available everywhere, so you don’t have to travel far and take too much time out of your busy schedules to find one.
Since restaurants are generally social places, the atmosphere is already taken care of. Besides, just about everyone would enjoy a wonderful meal.
Consider her opinion before you make a choice though. She might have some great restaurant ideas for a romantic first date venue.
2. Beach dates
In my opinion, this is among the best places to go for a first date.
Who doesn’t adore being near the shore, listening to the relaxing sound of the waves breaking on the sands? Who wouldn’t want to sit on white sands while sipping champagne by the moonlight? Lovely thought, isn’t it?
Beach dates can be very romantic. This will likely leave your lady with a memory she’ll love revisiting.
3. Long, scenic rides
Nature inspires and heals the soul. A breathtaking view of the mountains can make beautiful memories.
The breath of fresh air relaxes and frees our minds. The wide plains inspire us to let our imaginations wander, rest our bodies, and recover from stress.
If your lady loves to travel, this is one of the best options for your first date.
4. Walk in the park
If you think this is uninspired, think again. A lot of women would love something as simple and casual as a walk in the park.
Parks are accessible and budget friendly. They’re also public and family-friendly places, so your date will likely feel safe and comfortable there. You can take a stroll while snacking and talking or you can sit together at one of those park benches, people watching and having an engaging conversation.
This low-key idea is great because it takes away a lot of the pressure that comes with first dates.
Conclusion
First dates can make you nervous, but that’s understandable.
You just need to keep in mind that her opinions count for a lot. It’s good to have a plan, but always ask her if she’s okay with your idea.
There’s also no need to shell out a lot of money on a first date. The goal is to get to know each other and build a connection…or at least, to know if you both even want to go on a second date.
So, for that first date and hopefully all other dates afterwards, what matters most is your sincerity and, of course, to have a good time.
Also published on Medellin Singles
