DATING
Normalize Dating Multiple Women, Here’s Why
Don’t just speak with one woman at a matchmaking event. Increase your chances by dating multiple women — we, as matchmakers, encourage it.
But you might be thinking, shouldn’t dating be performed with only one person at a time? You aren’t wrong, but you’re not quite right either.
Options, options, options
Though it is very noble of you to only date one person at a time, this strategy won’t work on matchmaking events. I’ve seen plenty of men stick to one woman throughout the event, only to regret it when things didn’t work out between them due to incompatibility or lack of chemistry.
So, engage in roster dating or a game of collect and select.
Remember, you’re not the only guy there, and that special someone you’ve been getting along with might not have the hots for you. Or you might find out later that she’s not someone you want to be in a relationship with.
No harm, no foul, right?
On another note, you’re not shallow for dating multiple women. You’re just being practical and efficient with your time.
Date with efficiency
Although you are engaging with plenty of beautiful women, you shouldn’t get attached too fast. Otherwise, you might end up with a bad match.
But the good thing about matchmaking events is that you can meet everybody, even if they are not on your roster.
For example, if you have three tables with five women and one guy, one table caters to your preference — your roster. You mingle and have a good time. After a few minutes, you transfer to the next table and meet women from another guy’s roster. This continues until you finish going through each table.
You might think handling multiple women is difficult, but it’s not.
Matchmakers are readily available to assist. Each person has a name tag. And women are not as forgettable as you might think.😉
However, there should come a point when you should stop engaging with multiple women.
Stop when you’re exclusive with her
Let’s say you’ve finally found a woman with whom you want to move forward in a relationship. In this case, it’s time to focus on her and stop going on dates with multiple women.
When you do, you have plenty of love to give and receive. Trust me.
Being exclusive might mean giving up on the rest of the women you’ve genuinely enjoyed spending time with. But there’s only going to be one who is meant for you. That said, nurture your relationship with her.
Start eliminating the rest of the women from your roster — you don’t even need a roster anymore. Let them know you’re no longer available, as you’ve decided to stay exclusive with one woman. They might be heartbroken by your rejection, but it’s better than leading them on.
When dating multiple women, know your limits.
Going overboard and handling multiple relationships can get you in a pickle. Sure, it was all good during the matchmaking event. But now that you’re in an exclusive relationship, stay exclusive.
